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Friday, March 23, 2012
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
What propels love?
Is the whole world against us?
Can't we live the way we want?
Must we make so many bad choices?
I look into your eyes
There is another dimension
Where you and I
Live and love
From the outside judgments are made
Don't judge a book by its cover
That what I say
Sometimes it seems to get worse
But in the inside it's getting better
I do not think there is a single human soul
Who can understand why i am so into you
Why I love anything and everything about you
I know that it is true
That there is a feeling we share
Our future is uncertain
And the only person that knows
How it's going to turn out
is slowly fading from our sight
And if seeing is believing
What are we going to do?
May 28th, 2004
by Paula Mendez
Can't we live the way we want?
Must we make so many bad choices?
I look into your eyes
There is another dimension
Where you and I
Live and love
From the outside judgments are made
Don't judge a book by its cover
That what I say
Sometimes it seems to get worse
But in the inside it's getting better
I do not think there is a single human soul
Who can understand why i am so into you
Why I love anything and everything about you
I know that it is true
That there is a feeling we share
Our future is uncertain
And the only person that knows
How it's going to turn out
is slowly fading from our sight
And if seeing is believing
What are we going to do?
May 28th, 2004
by Paula Mendez
DIFFUSING ANGER
DIFFUSING ANGER
1. Understand why i get angry
Proverbs 19:11
a. Hurt
1.exaggerate it.
2. make it worse (exasperate)
2. Resolve: got to them privately first
a. more vulnerable to angry (is this worth getting angry over?)
b. frustration
c. insecurity
Ecclesiastes 7:21
Proverbs 20;26
3. Stop & think before reacting (write it down then crumble)
4. To diffuse my anger I've got to learn to relax
a. beware when temper is building in your life
1. Understand why i get angry
Proverbs 19:11
a. Hurt
1.exaggerate it.
2. make it worse (exasperate)
2. Resolve: got to them privately first
a. more vulnerable to angry (is this worth getting angry over?)
b. frustration
c. insecurity
Ecclesiastes 7:21
Proverbs 20;26
3. Stop & think before reacting (write it down then crumble)
4. To diffuse my anger I've got to learn to relax
a. beware when temper is building in your life
Monday, March 5, 2012
Thursday, March 1, 2012
2/26/12
2/26/12
So I worked last night at the Hilton and we were polishing silverware and I saw the sign that said "Happy St. Patrick's Day" & @ first I was confused then I realized next week is march...MARCH! I still remember new year's! So I said that to Lori, Michael Slintak & some others & Lori says "that's what happens when you're old" and we all continued to joke about it. But it got me thinking, if time goes by so fast how are we spending it? Working to make money to pay bills to enjoy things that waste our time. So were working to survive or waste time and/or both? On our tombstone is our birthdate and our death date and there's a dash that signifies our time in between, what did we do in that time? We worked, we watched TV, we slept, others drank/drugged/"partied" - is that the most we want to get out of life? Will we be proud when we look back at our life? If not, what have we done about it? What WILL we do about it? What do we do with what we have? For what purpose: selfish, Godly, unknown? I LONG to do more with my life I want to make a bigger impact on society, on the world, I want EVERYTHING i do to being glory to God! When I work, yeah I can witness to my co-workers & I can tithe the $ I make & I give donations to charities/missionaries but what happens when that becomes redundant? Am I being selfish wanting to do more for God? Is it a oximoron? I feel limited/stifled in what i want to for the kingdom :/ Have so many ideas but how/when can I execute them? Am I rushing God? Am I missing the little things? I pray God will reveal these things to me. I don't want to waste my time, I want to invest it all into God's kingdom.
So I worked last night at the Hilton and we were polishing silverware and I saw the sign that said "Happy St. Patrick's Day" & @ first I was confused then I realized next week is march...MARCH! I still remember new year's! So I said that to Lori, Michael Slintak & some others & Lori says "that's what happens when you're old" and we all continued to joke about it. But it got me thinking, if time goes by so fast how are we spending it? Working to make money to pay bills to enjoy things that waste our time. So were working to survive or waste time and/or both? On our tombstone is our birthdate and our death date and there's a dash that signifies our time in between, what did we do in that time? We worked, we watched TV, we slept, others drank/drugged/"partied" - is that the most we want to get out of life? Will we be proud when we look back at our life? If not, what have we done about it? What WILL we do about it? What do we do with what we have? For what purpose: selfish, Godly, unknown? I LONG to do more with my life I want to make a bigger impact on society, on the world, I want EVERYTHING i do to being glory to God! When I work, yeah I can witness to my co-workers & I can tithe the $ I make & I give donations to charities/missionaries but what happens when that becomes redundant? Am I being selfish wanting to do more for God? Is it a oximoron? I feel limited/stifled in what i want to for the kingdom :/ Have so many ideas but how/when can I execute them? Am I rushing God? Am I missing the little things? I pray God will reveal these things to me. I don't want to waste my time, I want to invest it all into God's kingdom.
my thoughts while sitting at a bar listening to karaoke and NOT drinking.
Why do us human beings when we're hurt or feeling something negative we turn to hurting ourselves more indirectly? Drinking has its comforting factor but most of the time its done in excess to "forget the worries" just to know that the next day we'll feel like crap &/or won't remember. When did this become acceptable? Why? Why bandage the wound instead of treating it? Why do we mask our hurt/sadness/despair? We convince ourselves with false hope and misplaced faith, we have that feeling like we know there's something else that can help us but were scared because we don't understand it. But why do we need to? If its going to help us feel better isn't that all that counts? If we can turn to alcohol/drugs/sex/etc. why can't we turn to God? Maybe its because we (humans) are scared to let go of something were familiar & "think" we understand to trade it in for something we don't understand...Take those of us that grew up getting everything we wanted never in need giving us a "sense" of fulfillment/contentment, maybe were thinking what can God give me that I don't have already? Take the story/parable of Nicodemus, Jesus told him he had to get rid of all he had to follow Him but he walked away sad because he had many riches. Everything a person "can" own only provides temporary fulfillment/"happiness", etc. It's like telling a toddler 1 cookie now or 2 cookies later & its always the 1 cookie now. So do we have an extended version of the child's quota " I want this and I want it now!"
If time is something we can't get back why do waste so much of it. if it feels so good when we help others, why are we so selfish?
Why do we let embarrassment get the best of us? Who cares what people think? If we're selfish beings then shouldn't we do what we want then regardless of what people think? Approval, rejection, acceptance, denial, independent, co-independent, empathy, apathy, intelligence, stupidity, ignorance, pretending, being real, anger, fear, sadness, were just melting pots of emotions. Some of us slow cookers.
Why do we always realize the obvious in retrospect?
Why is it so easy for us to see the ugly in the world and not the beauty? Then you take the ones that do whatever they want but if someone they care about looks down or disapproves of a certain action why does it discourage them or stop them? Because they don't want to "hurt" that person.We all want to live up to the better version of ourselves. Why do we feel we need to succumb to our cravings? What happens if we don't? ABSOLUTELY FREAKING NOTHING. We need to stop acting like children with our tantrums!
If time is something we can't get back why do waste so much of it. if it feels so good when we help others, why are we so selfish?
Why do we let embarrassment get the best of us? Who cares what people think? If we're selfish beings then shouldn't we do what we want then regardless of what people think? Approval, rejection, acceptance, denial, independent, co-independent, empathy, apathy, intelligence, stupidity, ignorance, pretending, being real, anger, fear, sadness, were just melting pots of emotions. Some of us slow cookers.
Why do we always realize the obvious in retrospect?
Why is it so easy for us to see the ugly in the world and not the beauty? Then you take the ones that do whatever they want but if someone they care about looks down or disapproves of a certain action why does it discourage them or stop them? Because they don't want to "hurt" that person.We all want to live up to the better version of ourselves. Why do we feel we need to succumb to our cravings? What happens if we don't? ABSOLUTELY FREAKING NOTHING. We need to stop acting like children with our tantrums!
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