Galatians 6:1-5

Galatians 6:1-5 (NIV) 
¹ Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. ² Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. ³ If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. ⁴ Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, ⁵ for each one should carry their own load. 


Bearing my own load or being responsible for my responsibilities would mean I couldn't blame anyone for my actions or being a part of it through implication because every action is decided before its done regardless of circumstances.
Meaning if you think about doing something & if you really want to do it weighing out the circumstances and you decided you were gonna do it, say it or whatever because you've set your mind on it no matter what anyone else says in agreement or opposition you're gonna do it. So you cant then say this person did or said this and persuaded me one way or another because in the end you made the decision. So you are then responsible for all deeds and words done and spoken and will be held accountable here on earth and in heaven.